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What should I do before a formal meeting?
Being invited to a formal meeting at work can feel daunting, particularly if you are unsure what to expect. Preparing beforehand can help you understand the situation, organise the information you want to raise and feel more confident about taking part in the meeting.
Quick Answer
Start by making sure you understand why the meeting has been arranged and what type of meeting it is.
Read the invitation and any documents you have been given. Then organise the key facts, make a simple timeline of what happened, gather any relevant information or evidence and write down the main points and questions you do not want to forget.
Depending on the type of meeting, you may also want to check whether you can bring someone with you and whether there is a workplace policy or procedure that explains what will happen.
You do not need to prepare a perfect speech. The aim is to arrive knowing what the meeting is about and with the information you need to explain your position clearly.
Create a Simple Timeline
First, Understand What the Meeting Is About
Before preparing what you want to say, make sure you understand why you have been invited.
Read the invitation carefully and check:
• what type of meeting it is;
• why the meeting has been arranged;
• what issues or concerns will be discussed;
• who will be attending;
• whether you have been sent any information to review;
• whether there is a workplace policy or procedure that applies;
• whether you have been asked to bring or prepare anything.
If the invitation is unclear, it is reasonable to ask your employer to explain the purpose of the meeting before you attend.
Knowing what type of meeting you are attending will also help you understand what preparation is most useful.
Know What Type of Meeting You're Attending
Different workplace meetings have different purposes and procedures. Use the relevant WorkAnswers guide if you need to understand what usually happens at a particular type of meeting.
Investigation Meeting
Understand what happens during the fact-finding stage and how you can prepare.
Disciplinary Meeting
Understand what happens when your employer is formally considering a disciplinary issue.
Grievance Meeting
Understand what happens after you have raised a formal grievance.
Performance Meeting
Understand how to prepare for a formal discussion about your performance.
Not sure what kind of HR meeting you've been invited to?
Start with the WorkAnswers guide explaining what to do if HR asks you to attend a meeting.
Read the Information You've Been Given
Go through the meeting invitation and any documents your employer has provided.
Depending on the type of meeting, this could include:
• a letter or email explaining the meeting;
• details of concerns or issues being discussed;
• documents or evidence your employer wants to discuss;
• previous correspondence;
• meeting notes;
• a relevant workplace policy or procedure;
• performance objectives or previous reviews.
Do not assume you need to respond to every document immediately.
First, identify what is relevant to the meeting and anything you do not understand or disagree with.
If important information appears to be missing, make a note of what you need to ask about.
- Create a Simple Timeline
A chronology can make a complicated workplace situation much easier to explain.
Write down the important events in date order.
For each event, consider:
• What happened?
Briefly describe the event.
• When did it happen?
Include the date or approximate date where possible.
• Who was involved?
Note anyone directly involved or who may have relevant information.
• What happened afterwards?
Include important conversations, emails, decisions or follow-up actions.
Keep the timeline factual and focused on the events that matter to the meeting.
You can take it with you and use it to help you remember the sequence of events.
Gather Relevant Information and Evidence
Think about whether there is information that could help explain or support what you want to say.
Depending on the situation, this might include:
• emails;
• messages;
• letters;
• meeting notes;
• documents;
• workplace policies;
• performance records;
• dates or diary entries;
• relevant records;
• names of people who may have useful information.
Focus on information that actually helps explain the situation.
Having a large amount of material is not necessarily better. A smaller number of clearly relevant documents can be easier to use during the meeting.
Keep your documents organised so that you can find something quickly if you need it.
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I know what I need to prepare for a formal meeting?
Start with the meeting invitation and any documents your employer has sent you. Identify what the meeting is about, what issues will be discussed and whether you have been asked to provide anything. Then prepare a simple timeline, organise relevant information and write down the main points and questions you want to raise. The preparation you need will also depend on the type of meeting.
Can I bring someone with me to a formal meeting?
It depends on the type of meeting. There are statutory rights to be accompanied at certain disciplinary and grievance meetings, while other meetings may be covered by your employer's policy or an agreement to allow someone to attend. Check the invitation and relevant workplace procedure, and ask your employer in advance if you would like someone with you.
What if I haven't been given enough information or time to prepare?
Raise this with your employer as soon as possible. Explain what information you believe you need or why you need more time. Depending on the circumstances, your employer may be able to provide further information, clarify what the meeting will cover or consider changing the arrangements.
Related WorkAnswers
For employees who are unsure why they have been invited or what type of meeting it is.
Understand the fact-finding stage and what usually happens.
Things to Think About Before the Meeting
Do I understand why the meeting has been arranged?
Do I know what type of meeting it is?
Have I read the invitation and relevant documents?
Have I created a simple timeline?
Do I have relevant evidence or information organised?
What are the three or four most important points I want to make?
What questions do I want to ask?
Is there anything I want the employer to understand or consider?
Have I checked whether I can bring someone?
Do I need to ask for any clarification or reasonable adjustments before the meeting?
Do I know what I want to take with me?
Important: WorkAnswers provides general workplace information and guidance, not legal advice.
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